"T" is for Trust These children have lost trust in the people who are trying to care for them, the people who are neglecting them, and/or with the world at large. Many experts stress consistency and structure and encourage parents to implement a routine that is to be followed daily. I think there is a place for doing things the same way, especially at bedtime, but too much structure can be harmful. In the case of children with Reactive Attachment Disorder, it gives these hype

Chapter 6 - "N" is for Neutrality & Non-Defensiveness When one understands that the child’s goal is control of others and of situations, it’s easier to see that when they are acting out, they are often trying to manipulate others’ emotions and reactions. If they can make the parent/caregiver mad, then they are the “puppet master” of sorts and can bend the situation in the direction they want it to go. If the parent/guardian (in cases of children with RAD it is usually the...

Chapter 5 - “O” is for Options  I think most parents incorporate offering options or choices to their kids as a way to help them start...

Chapter 4 - “C” is for Control  Note: If you have not read the Preface through Chapter 3, please do so. Some of the tactics explained...

An Overview of the C.O.N.T.R.O.L. method.

Historical treatment of RAD and how it has been perceived in the past.

The Psychology of New Year's Resolutions and Importance of Prioritizing mental well-being.

Teletherapy has opened up a world of possibilities for receiving care from the comfort of home. However, creating an environment that...

Eight tips to help you navigate Thanksgiving with authenticity and self-care.

Understanding Reactive Attachment Disorder Preface: I fully realize that the current Diagnostic Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders...

There are many children who experience attachment issues, yet I believe this to be the most misunderstood disorder, especially by...

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